Tom Green County

Sheriff's Office

222 West Harris, San Angelo, Texas

 

        

 

KINGS

support group

 

What is a Crisis?

WINGS support group

Safety Plan

Family Violence

Sexual Assault

Date Rape Drugs

History of Family Violence

Kids In Network Grow Stronger!

 Sorry.....we no longer have this program

 

 

 
 
Effects of Domestic Violence on Children

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Infants & toddlers (0-2 1/2 years)

  • Developmental delay
  • Failure to thrive--due to the chaotic, loud and harmful environment
  • Emotional withdrawal/low frustration tolerance
  • Physical problems:  frequent colds, ear infections, diarrhea

 

Pre-Schoolers (3-6 years)

  • Developmental delay--especially in language development.  The child may be afraid to speak, afraid of becoming targets of danger.  This is due in part to not being spoken to by adults or experiencing meaningful discussions with adults.
  • Low frustration tolerance--Children cries easily and often.  His/her world is so chaotic that they cannot handle ordinary stress.  Usually has not witnessed appropriate ways of dealing with stress.
  • Acting out aggressively toward peers and adults--modeling the aggressive behaviors observed in the home. 
  • Emotional withdrawal--excessive thumb sucking, rocking, infant-like behaviors.  The child is seeking safety and security by reverting to behaviors characteristic of a time when he/she felt secure.
  • Inability to play constructively--lots of throwing or kicking, possibly even destruction of playthings.  Many children have not been shown how to play.  Children are working out their frustrations and worry in play.
  • Inconsistent of inappropriate display of emotions--The result of the child not learning appropriate emotional responses, as well as not being in touch with their true feelings

 

School age Child (7-11 years)

  • Scholastically delayed/poor school performance
  • Behavior problems with peers and adults
  • Aggressive acting out becomes more severe and purposeful
  • Severe Behavioral difficulties
  • Fearful/nightmares/night terrors
  • Chronic physical complaints
  • Beginning to mimic adults roles
  • Chronic low self-esteem

 

Adolescence (12-17 years)

  • Depression
  • Emotional neglect
  • Signs of physical injuries, maiming, crippling, scarring
  • Aggression, delinquency, running away
  • Poor school adjustment--academically and socially unable to perform
  • Early sexual activity/marriage--provides as a means of escape or acting out
  • Alcohol/drug experimentation or use
  • Death by suicide or murder--taking of one's own life to end the pain, or intervening to protect the mother results in harm or death to child, or the child killing abuser
  • Expansion of violence into the community--criminal activity sometimes through gang involvement where teen finds surrogate family.  Anger and frustration spills over into the community.

 

 

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Last modified: 01/26/2010

 

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